We all have beliefs and biases. I think you have a right to know what mine are.
I believe …
… we are all capable of growth and change.
… most of us don’t recognize our own emotional and mental strength.
… ‘perfect’ is an unrealistic ideal. Seeking perfection is a recipe for suffering. Seeking growth and excellence is more realistic, rewarding, and effective.
… asking for help is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of courage and willingness to grow. Feelings of fear and shame often keep us from seeking help and support. Unfortunately, much like waiting a long time to see a doctor for a physical injury, waiting to seek help increases the time and energy needed to heal.
… that the biggest challenge facing most of us today is the challenge of managing uncomfortable feelings, especially our feelings of fear.
… conflict and discomfort are normal. Where most of us go wrong is that we try to avoid conflict and discomfort instead of using them to learn and grow.
… we live in a reactive, quick-fix, “happy now, sad later” society, and that the messages we are inundated with on a daily basis are harmful to our well-being and our relationships.
… that all addictive behaviors have the same core: attempting to numb inner pain or discomfort through the use of something (or someone) outside oneself.
… every experience, no matter how difficult or painful, can serve a positive purpose in your life.
… that happiness has less to do with what you have or what happens to you a lot more to do with your perspective and your choices when faced with life’s inevitable challenges.
… that regardless of one’s religious or spiritual beliefs, the Serenity Prayer has valuable wisdom for all of us.
… that, clichéd as it may sound, I would keep doing my job even if I won the lottery – I truly do love my job. Through my work, I have seen incredible transformations as people work through their emotional wounds and fears and discover not only who they are, but all the good things that they have to offer. I am honored by my clients’ willingness to share their stories with me, and witnessing the strength and courage of my clients on a daily basis is truly inspiring.
